So today is February 14th, AWWWW. How sweet. To some it's a day of professing love, and showing your desire and passion for someone. To me, it's doing sh*t people should have been doing throughout the whole relationship. I think it should be called TIT FOR TAT DAY. That sounds a lot more suitable. Today is a day of pressure and obligations. The man (or the masculine partner) goes out with no clue what he's doing to buy some random cute, fuzzy, sweet, sparkly or thoughtful gift, the woman (or feminine partner) goes out and possibly buys a gift but also prepares to provide some sexual favors, tricks and freaky performances. If one of the two parties does not provide what is expected. There's going to be a problem. This Tit for Tat day is really for women in my opinion. It's a day for them to show their family who probably hates their boyfriend or husband, or their nosey friends that they are actually loved and they can prove it by the nappy looking teddy bear and the hollow tennis bracelet their boyfriend got from the Indian guy's kiosk in the mall. I just hope after this wonderful day the men keep living up to their woman's high expectations of being a great lover, communicator, provider, and being faithful. While the women lives up to his expectations of giving him his space, supporting his dreams and aspirations, staying beautiful, knowing when to shut up and of course, being faithful as well. For the lovers, and I mean the REAL lovers. This should be just an ordinary day nothing too unusual to go out of each others way to make them feel special and loved. So if you have a Valentine, not a Trick or a Sugar Daddy/Mama, enjoy your day and evening. If not, be happy you don't have the drama, just hang out with a friend or go clubbing. Or hit up a strip joint if that's your type of thing. LOL
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